Monthly Archives: January 2014

You Need to Trust Yourself If You Hope to Be Successful

Trust

“You don’t deserve to be happy”
“Why are you such a loser?”
“Why can’t you get anything right?”
“Your life is Going Down the Toilet”
“You have Just Fucked that Right Up”

This is the type of shitty feedback I get to listen to all the time. If these put-downs were coming from a boss, I could probably sue for mental abuse. If a ‘friend’ launched this level of negativity against me, I’d get angry and never speak to him/her again – if it was a weaker guy, I might even be tempted to punch him on the nose. I’m not a doormat – I’d normally take action if somebody was abusing me in this way. The problem is I can’t do any of that in this situation because the abuse is coming from my own brain.

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You Need to Trust Yourself If You Hope to Be Successful 2017-11-24T04:35:39+00:00

Pay Attention to Your Dreams – Your Subconscious Might Be Sending You an Important Message

I’m about to take a nursing exam, but I know for certain I’m going to fail it. I haven’t studied at all, and I didn’t attend any of the classes. I feel ashamed, and I regret not trying harder.

I never failed any of my nursing exams, and I no longer work as a nurse, but I’ve had this same dream hundreds of times over the last few years. I now see my subconscious was sending me an important message, but I didn’t listen so it kept on repeating.

dream catcher
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Pay Attention to Your Dreams – Your Subconscious Might Be Sending You an Important Message 2017-11-24T04:35:39+00:00

You Do Not Need to Become a Better Person to Reach Your Potential

I started this blog with the intention of recording my radical transformation into a different and better person. I also hoped my posts would encourage other people to follow in my footsteps. Things haven’t worked out as planned, and it is now obvious that I’ve been mistaken. I don’t need to radically transform into a better person – I just need to accept who I am.

Love yourself
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You Do Not Need to Become a Better Person to Reach Your Potential 2017-11-24T04:35:39+00:00