The fact that we are here at all is magical – the whole universe is one huge mystery. I try to keep an open mind when it comes to supernatural claims. I remind myself that many of the things we take for grated today would once have been viewed as supernatural – could you image describing Wi-Fi to somebody from the nineteenth century?
I’m willing to entertain the possibility that the universe does sometimes lend us some supernatural assistance. There have been many occasions when it felt like I benefited from this type of help, but I certainly can’t prove this theory. The one thing I do know for sure is that even if such help is available, it is not something I can control.
If I become dependent on this type of assistance, I fall into the trap of magical thinking. Here are 7 reasons for why this would be a mistake:
1. Magical Thinking Means Looking for Something for Nothing
If there is something you really want in life, you are usually going to able to get it if we are willing to work hard enough. The road to achieving this goal might be long and difficult, but this journey can also be as rewarding as the final result.
The problem with magical thinking is that it is an attempt to bypass the usual effort required to achieve a goal. It’s an attempt to cheat the system. It means I’m wasting mental energy that would be better used for doing the necessary work to achieve my goal.
2. Magical Thinking Turns Me Into a Victim
Magical thinking can easily deteriorate into learned helplessness. It means I’m expecting some external force to come and fix me because I’m not willing to sort out the problem myself. I’ve never made any progress in life by thinking of myself as a victim – all my growth has occurred when I realised my power and took action.
3. Magical Thinking Has a Poor Track Record
If magical thinking was a reliable solution, why would so many people still rely on effort and hard work to achieve their goals. I don’t believe in a huge conspiracy that allows a select few to achieve success and riches through some secret magic.
I’ve met plenty of people who failed in their attempts to boss the universe around using affirmations and visualizations – including myself. Choosing magical thinking as the tool for reaching a goal means relying on something that has a very poor track record.
4. Magical Thinking Doesn’t Lead to Happiness
I’ve had moments where I experienced a real sense of bliss while contemplating the wonder of existence. Appreciating the magic can certainly make me happy but seeking supernatural assistance not so much. This is because the real happiness comes from the satisfaction of getting the job done – the feeling of having earned my reward.
If a million dollars magically appeared in my life, I’d probably be happy for a few months, but it would not give me anywhere near the same level of satisfaction as earning that money. I suspect this is why so many lottery jackpot winners end up viewing this money as a curse.
5. Magical Thinking Can Disconnect Me From Reality
This life is so wonderful, but it is so easy to take it for granted. Magical thinking can make it harder for me to appreciate what is there right in front of me. The universe really might be one huge delusion, but if I want to get the most out of the experience, I need to take it on face value. If some higher power has gone to the trouble to create such a convincing delusion, it would seem ungrateful to not make the most out of it.